Don’t just "enjoy" your youth

As the years have gone by and my number of birthdays has increased, I’m learning a few hard lessons about being middle-aged.  Do any of these sound familiar?

·       I’m not as young as I used to be
·       I don’t bounce back as quickly as I used to
·       I didn’t realize how good my younger body actually was

When I was in my teens and twenties, I often took solace in a verse from one of Paul’s letters to his protégé, Timothy.  After traveling and ministering under Paul for many years and a number of mission trips, Paul gave Timothy a specific, and certainly challenging, assignment – to stay put and lead the Christian church in the city of Ephesus.

Ephesus was a true melting pot of cultures because it was a major port city on the western edge of modern-day Turkey.  Commerce from all over the world passed through Ephesus, and the people who brought the goods also brought their cultures, beliefs, and religious practices with them.

Although Paul believed Timothy was ready for this role, after some time, Paul wrote two letters of encouragement – we refer to these as 1 Timothy and 2 Timothy.  Now Timothy was on the younger side, likely late 20s to early 30s when Paul wrote to him.  Not quite as young as when I grabbed ahold of this verse, but Timothy was still pretty young to be THE GUY leading the church in the crazy town of Ephesus.  Here’s the verse I used to build up my self-esteem in those early years (in the NIV84 translation I had at that time):

1 Tmothy 4:12
Don’t let anyone look down on you because you are young

I mean, doesn’t this phrase just drip with encouragement for any young person in the church?  After remembering this verse, I’d mentally puff out my chest and think, “Yeah, I can do important stuff for God, too!  Don’t look down on me and write me off because of my age!”

But what I didn’t recognize at the time…I wasn’t quoting the whole verse, because what you read above is just a snippet of what Paul was communicating.  Here’s the whole idea, with the snippet in context:

1 Timothy 4:12-16
Don’t let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in life, in love, in faith, and in purity.  Until I come, devote yourself to the public reading of Scripture, to preaching and to teaching.  Do not neglect your gift, which was given you through a prophetic message when the body of elders laid their hands on you.

Be diligent in these matters; give yourself wholly to them, so that everyone may see your progress.  Watch your life and doctrine closely.  Persevere in them, because if you do, you will save both yourself and your hearers.

Paul’s advice isn’t just about not getting down on yourself because “everybody thinks I’m too young to do anything”.  People may have that opinion of you as a youngster, but he’s not advocating that we overcome with a self-indulgent pep-talk. 

Instead, Paul says we have work to do.  We are to set an example – and not one of just being a nice person.  Our example shows up in our speech, how we conduct our life, our faith, and our purity.  Paul doesn’t say just be “good” at one of these things and be “working on” the rest.  No, he says we should be at an example-level for all to see.

These qualities will only develop as we devote ourselves to Scripture, preaching, and teaching.  Timothy should not neglect his gift…he can’t expect to skate by on what God has naturally gifted him to do (and neither should we!).  Diligence is necessary for godly development; we have to let people see our progress.  Our perseverance will not only save us from trouble and being unproductive – our efforts will also rescue those under our care from those same things!

If I were to boil down Paul’s advice to Timothy, it would be this:
Don’t just enjoy your youth, leverage it.  Make eternal investments, don’t waste the time we have.

Oh, and one last thing – Don’t read this, shrug your shoulders, and think this passage doesn’t apply to you.  Don’t tell me that you’re “not a youth”, but you know someone who needs to hear this.  That’s a cop-out.  That’s lazy thinking.  If you ask someone who’s 100 years old, you are still young.  So, what are you going to do with the time you have?

Keep Pressing,
Ken